
Nepal has voted for change. The campaign was filled with promises of better governance, economic revival, infrastructure, jobs and reform. But once the speeches fade and the slogans disappear, a harder question remains: will the country’s new leadership make Nepal safer for women and children?
That question did not receive the attention it deserved during the election. The manifestos and debate focused heavily on growth, service delivery and political renewal. Yet issues that shape the daily lives of millions of women and children, such as gender-based violence, child protection, survivor reintegration, mental health support and community-based protection services were largely pushed to the margins. At a time when Nepal is entering a new political chapter after a dramatic electoral shift, that silence should worry us.
The true measure of leadership is not only how many roads are built or how efficiently budgets are spent. It is also whether a woman can seek help without fear, whether a girl can stay in school without being pushed into early marriage, and whether a child at risk can find protection before harm becomes permanent.
For those of us working in communities with women, children and survivors, these are not abstract policy concerns. They are lived realities. They are the stories that rarely enter campaign platforms: the woman who remains in an abusive home because she has nowhere safe to go; the adolescent girl whose future narrows under the weight of early marriage; the child carrying trauma in silence because there is no functioning support system nearby. In these lives, politics becomes real not through speeches, but through safety, dignity and access to support.
Nepal is no longer in armed conflict, but it is still living with the long shadow of violence, exclusion and institutional weakness. In many communities, women and children continue to face layered vulnerabilities shaped by poverty, discrimination, migration, disability, social norms and limited state support. Harm has changed form, but it has not disappeared. It appears in domestic violence behind closed doors, abuse online, in coercive control normalised as family discipline, in child marriage still defended as tradition, and in emotional trauma that remains largely invisible in policy and underserved in practice.
The evidence is already clear. The 2022 Nepal Demographic and Health Survey found that 22 percent of women aged 15–49 have experienced physical violence since age 15, 7 percent have experienced sexual violence, and 12 percent have experienced emotional violence by an intimate partner. These are not small numbers. They point to a protection system that still fails too many women, too often, and too quietly.
The warning signs for girls are just as serious. UN Women’s Nepal data shows that 33.2 percent of women aged 20–24 were married before the age of 18. This is not only a harmful social practice; it is also a failure of protection, education and opportunity. A country cannot speak confidently about development while so many girls are still entering marriage before adulthood.
Children more broadly continue to face uneven support depending on where they live. The Government of Nepal’s recent national child report shows that children make up 33.84 percent of the population. Yet by fiscal year 2022/23, only 372 local units had established local child rights committees, 390 had appointed child welfare officers, and 286 had established child funds. That means large parts of the country still do not have a complete local protection structure in place.
This is why the federal election matters, even though many frontline services are delivered locally. Parliament does not run every shelter, respond to every case, or manage every ward- level mechanism. But the federal government decides whether protection is treated as a national priority. It shapes laws, budgets, standards and coordination. It determines whether local governments are backed by serious policy and resources, or left to manage complex protection challenges with limited funding and inconsistent technical support. Nepal’s new leadership will therefore be judged not only by what it says about reform, but by whether it strengthens the systems that protect people in everyday life.
Nepal has, of course, made important progress. Women held 33.1 percent of seats in parliament as of February 2024, and 41.29 percent of elected seats in local deliberative bodies. Those gains matter. They reflect years of struggle and constitutional commitment. But representation alone is not transformation. The real question is whether political participation is producing stronger institutions, better-funded services and safer communities for women and children.
From field experience, one lesson becomes clear again and again: survivors do not need sympathy alone. They need systems that work. A woman leaving violence may need shelter, legal aid, psychosocial counselling, child support, income options and community acceptance at the same time. A child at risk may need a teacher who notices the warning signs, a health worker who understands referral pathways, a ward office that acts quickly, and a local network that stays engaged after the immediate crisis passes. Harm does not happen in isolation, and recovery does not happen in isolation either.
So what should the new leadership do?
First, the federal government should treat survivor support services as essential public services, not as donor-dependent add-ons. Safe shelter, trauma-informed counselling, legal aid, case management and reintegration support require predictable funding and clear standards.
Second, Nepal must invest much more seriously in community-based protection systems. Protection begins where people live: in wards, schools, health posts, women’s groups, youth groups and local networks. These are often the first places where risk becomes visible. They need training, staffing, coordination and trust.
Third, local governments and civil society organisations must work in closer partnership. In many communities, civil society actors already hold the trust, local knowledge and practical experience that formal systems often lack. That experience should be integrated into planning and response, not treated as secondary.
Fourth, mental health support must move from the margins to the centre of protection policy. Too many survivors are expected to rebuild their lives without meaningful psychosocial care. Healing is not an optional extra. It is part of justice. Nepal’s election was driven by public frustration and the demand for a different kind of politics. That demand should not stop at anti-corruption language or administrative reform. It should extend to the most basic promise a state can make: that people can live with safety and dignity.
Working closely with women and young survivors in communities reminds us that political change only becomes meaningful when it improves the everyday safety, dignity and opportunities of those most vulnerable. If Nepal’s new leadership truly wants to represent a break from the past, it should start there.